Blather is an interesting choice of words. How did you come to the conclusion from what I wrote that I do not express empathy? Feminism is not an offering; it's an assertion of equality. And empathy is what allows me to work with men wearing ankle bracelets charged with molesting their daughters, or men who made 'terroristic threats' when their girlfriends break up with them because the common denominator is blame everyone else for their actions, that just maybe their emotional distress is attributable to so much more than some woman who believes she is equal to him in value. I extend empathy because I don't want them to become the next mass shooter. But ultimately we are all impacted by rigid social expectations that are harmful, so that is why I stated we need to have meaningful dialogue-work together to deconstruct the damage imposed by this. This is collaborative, not adversarial as your response seems to indicate by claiming this is a means to subjugate men.