Interesting points but I want to challenge a few. One is the perception that women are hypergamous. If most of one’s experience of women comes from social media, then that explains the misperception. Most women interested in relationships are seeking a partner, not a meal ticket, and trust me, the hedge fund guy with the hairdresser wife has already protected his assets even without a pre-nup. Women less frequently benefit economically post-divorce based on long term studies. Relationships can and should be approached less from a gender divide construct of who provides financially, who handles childcare, domestic chores and more from a collaborative, mutually invested one. Both men and women are better served if we can move away from the idea that women’s gains in self-actualization detracts from and penalizes men. That is a politically polarizing message that is harmful to us all.