The social media world deliberately induces outrage and promotes the most extreme positions. It’s primarily about adversarial posturing. Living in the real world takes courage. Volunteering in some capacity, joining a running club, whatever activity, helps us to connect and to see the humanity in others. Maybe young men can look for ways to be of service to others and build their self-confidence in the process. There are many women out there who seek a partner who can value and respect them and see them as equals and have their own avenues to financial independence. We need men who possess your insight to call out the ones who do not.