We do allow for ending others lives. In war, policing, self defense. As I recall Kyle Rittenhouse was not only acquitted but provided free plane rides to give talks. And to say rape is rare shows an egregious level of ignorance. All I read in your reply is someone angry that women have the audacity to engage in sex for pleasure. Women have always shouldered much more of the responsibility for sustaining the human race than men. We are not about to sacrifice ourselves at its altar.