You do seem to be vulnerable to social media messaging which elevates extremist, polarizing viewpoints of Jen hating women and women hating men, which is deliberate and intentional and is well-cited in The Chaos Machine by Max Fisher. There are politically active groups advocating for policies that preserve women’s rights and reproductive healthcare access. I am a member of the National Association of Social workers who support women’s rights and we are a national pro-choice group. We don’t male bash; we do the real work in communities to help women and children and meet with local legislators. Planned Parenthood is another such group. Wokism is mostly fueled by Russian disinformation giving those who spend too much online the impression that feminists hate men. Support NASW and Planned Parenthood. Men are involved and welcomed.